Are You Dating A Narcissist? Seven Surefire Clues to Tell if Your Boyfriend is A Narcissist

Do you find yourself in a relationship that gives you a little bit of concern that maybe this one has some "issues" that might cause a lot of trouble? Listen to your intuition. Intuition has the ability to pick up on a subconscious level hints that this may not be the right person for you. Do some fact checking and answer these questions:

1. Does he rage and then apologize and promise it will never happen again? How many times do you need to see this before you recognize this as a tactic of an abuser? Once is enough. Two times is too much. Go.

2. Is he 'too good to be true'? Is he your soulmate? knight in shining armor? And you know this on the second or third date? Better step back and give this one some time. No one is perfect and often abusers are charming and manipulative but not as they reel you in.

3. Does he ask you for money? Does he never take you someplace nice for dinner? Being thrifty is fine, but being pathological about money is not. Watch out for clues such as a someone with a good job that never spends money. Narcissists do not have a normal relationship with money.

4. Does he spend money unwisely? The other pathology surrounding money is that of the show - off. The man with huge roll of bills who is always buying drinks for the bar, but doesn't know how to save for the house.